Parenting After Divorce
by Philip M. Stahl,Ph.D.
This revised and updated second edition features ideas from the latest research, more information on long-distance parenting, dealing with the courts, and working with a difficult co-parent.
"Parents argue a lot before a divorce," says Dr. Stahl. "If they continue to argue after the divorce, their children will suffer." Stahl knows parents are not perfect, and he uses that knowledge to show imperfect parents how to settle their differences in the best interests of the children.
Often required reading in court-mandated divorce education classes, Parenting After Divorce includes chapters on:
- Conflict
- Communication
- Co-Parenting and Competition
- It's Time for a Truce
- Your Child's Childhood
- Parenting Responsibly on Your Own
- Children's Thoughts and Feelings (a chapter by children)
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- Your Child is Not a Percentage
- Children Aren't Property
- Taking Care of Yourself
- Resolving Parent Conflicts
- Dealing with Special Problems
- Dealing with the Courts
- Talking to Your Children
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Editorial Reviews
"A wise and practical book for divorcing parents..." - Andrew Schepard, J.D., Hofstra University
"An important read!" - Phil Bushard, Past President, Association of Family and Conciliation Courts
"A treasure trove of practical, down to earth, easy to understand information." - Hon. Arline S. Rotman, Associate Justice, Family Court, Boston, MA
"...one of the best books...written for...divorced parents who want to create the healthiest family life...for their children..." - Rhonda B. Barovsky, LCSW, BCD, Program Manager, Family Court Services, San Francisco, CA
From the Publisher
Here at last is a realistic perspective on divorce and its effects on children. PARENTING AFTER DIVORCE features knowledgeable advice from an expert custody evaluator. Packed with real-world examples, this book avoids idealistic assumptions, and offers practical help from divorcing parents, custody evaluators, family court counselors, marriage and family therapists, and others interested in the well-being of children.
Dr. Stahl's advice will help you avoid the dozen most common mistakes that divorcing parents make -- and spare you the emotional and financial damage they can cost you and your children. His 30-point "sample parenting plan" sets a new standard for families who want to bring order out of the usual chaos of parenting after divorce. The chapter, "What Your Kids Really Think," is by itself worth the price of the book.
This is a powerful, practical book that every divorcing parent should read while there's still time to ensure a secure and healthy future for their children.